Thoughts on Blogging + Writing
As I was organizing my office the other day, I came across my culinary school binder and and it got me thinking about a lot of things. Mostly, it got me thinking about blogging and how this space has evolved in the past five years. For starters, I miss writing about cooking!
Like, cooking cooking. Not just cooking as it relates to whatever recipe I’m sharing – but cooking experiments, cooking fails (yes, those things happen around here!), things I’m loving or am wanting to try, restaurants and places that are inspiring me, and other life things.
I feel like I haven’t talked about life in a very, very long time – and it has been weighing on my mind lately. I’ve hinted at what I’ve been up to, but it’s been a long time since I just wrote about it.
I love creating and sharing recipes – and that has been the sole focus of this blog in the past few years and will continue to be – but I miss the connection that comes from blogging spontaneously and more…how can I say this? Authentically and honestly? That’s not the right word, but I can’t think of a better way to describe it at the moment.
But – and this is the hard part – it can be incredibly difficult in curated internet world.
My friend, Jessica, described it perfectly the other week. The pressure (and let’s face it, desire, because that is definitely part of it!) to create beautifully curated blogs and Instagram feeds is real. It is real and it’s an issue many of us have to navigate. I’m 100% guilty of not sharing photos I’ve deemed not ‘on-brand’ or Instagram-worthy enough – and I’m conflicted by it. Or holding back with my writing for fear of boring people or not being relevant to a given recipe.
I believe most of us are aware of it, we’re all a bit sick of it, and we all keep doing it anyway – and that’s the honest truth. It’s precisely why so many bloggers – including myself – have jumped on platforms like Snapchat. It is, for the most part, unedited and unfiltered. We show the dirty dishes (there are a lot of them!), our families and neurotic cats (hi, that’s me!), the hard and sometimes tedious work involved, and everything in between.
I love the inspiration that comes with beautiful images and feeds – and I love pretty things as much as the next person – but it is the writing, the passion, the authenticity and creativity, and the person behind a blog that keeps me coming back for more. Time and time again. Realness makes you relatable – and who doesn’t want or crave that in this day and age?
So, with that being said, this is my pledge to do things a bit more authentically and spontaneously around here, whether that’s posting outside my comfort zone, trying new content (you have to start somewhere!), and simply being more REAL and transparent with you.
Let’s face it, that is much, much more inspiring anyway! Thank you so much, as always, for being here! I love you guys. If this post resonates with you, I’d love to hear your thoughts too! Or feel free to shoot me email!
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This is precisely why I love snapchat as much as i do – it’s back to raw, unedited, unfiltered REAL life.
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I would love to read more posts about cooking! I love cooking and the process involved, and most recipe blogs tend to skip over that part. I adore your blog and would be up for reading more about cooking/life/anything on your mind 🙂
Thank you so much for the feedback and kind words Maddy! Really appreciate it!!! 🙂
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Sigh…this stuff is real and we all have those feelings. I love blogs with beautiful photography but what makes me connect with the blogger is their writing. Always. I definitely shared more in the beginning but I think we are all too aware that vulnerability is dangerous and can be easiely misinterpreted in the harsh world of internet. Sometimes I think of starting another blog, just for writing and photography but who am I kidding I am already working 2 jobs!! I am looking forward to reading about your cooking experiments, I love those!!
Thanks so much Julia! Yes, you’re absolutely right. It can be very discouraging to hear negative feedback or feel like you’re not delivering the type of content that people want to see. For the most part, all of my readers are very supportive – I’ve just gotten held back a bit more lately than I WANT to, and that’s where I need to get a bit better! 🙂 Thanks for sharing this!
So much YES to this! I think Sarah from Broma Bakery just wrote a post similar to this, speaking to how she used to right is a ‘weird’ voice and now has defaulted to an ‘on brand’ and most plain voice, for fear of turning away readers. I feel this way too, especially since it seems like the ‘bigger’ a blogger gets the more they get away from who they are, which isn’t the point at all! Cheers to keeping it real and posting more cat pictures 🙂
Yes!!! I linked to her post above, because I loved it so much. I don’t think my ‘voice’ has changed that much, but I do feel that I hold back sometimes or just…get in a rut of not sharing other things that I want to talk about! I just need to stop over-thinking sometimes. I’m sure Max will be THRILLED if I take more pictures of him! 😉
GIRL. HIGH FIVE!
I love that you wrote this. I remember when I first started following you and all your culinary adventures over at B.O.T. I’ve always liked your voice and your point of view (duh!) And I truly consider you as an inspiration when it comes to blogging. I MEAN IT, L! Somehow, among all the other blogs that I follow, you bring something different to the table. And I really think it’s your tone and genuineness that comes thru your writing.
Anyway! I’m sure I’ve already said these things in the past before 😛 Don’t ever lose your edge 🙂
Thank you so, so much for this! I needed it and it really means a lot that you say that! 🙂 xo
I understand how you feel. Sometimes I feel like it isn’t even worth sharing things about myself because maybe no one will even care. Since I’m also kind of…socially awkward, I often fear that I will end up sharing too much if I decide to open up. Overall, I try not to hide too much about my general personality because I’ve never been too good at that. Maybe that’s why my blog isn’t as popular as others. Who knows. All I can tell you is that I personally love reading about the people behind the blogs and gorgeous photography and I love watching your cat snaps!
I think people DO care! That’s the thing that’s hard to remember sometimes! I think because comments and feedback is very…minimal these days, it is easy to think that no one is really reading the words on a blog.
Thank you so much Amanda!!!!! Do you!
I don’t know how to juggle all you do and clearly it’s not easy. But….you are an inspiration to me and I love seeing your photos and reading your recipes. I’m typing this as I eat one of the orange, pistachio,chocolate chip cookies I just made! Please don’t feel too much pressure. Know that when I see your beautifully designed site, it puts a smile on my face!
Thank you so much Elaine! That means so much to me! Thank you!
I’ve tried to stay true to myself on all social media outlets, and have never paid much attention to what my brand is, why is likely a crutch my blog has but it’s easier for me to get away with that since I’m just a part time blogger and have another job to pay the big bills. I try to interact on social media as if I were a reader (and heck I actually am of many food blogs), and as a reader I enjoy seeing what goes on beyond the blog posts. If I want to see a picture of what’s on their blog, I go to their blog.
At the same time, we all keep saying how we miss the old days and yet unfortunately the market is what it is and unless we all quit following the rules of what good bloggers are supposed to do, it will continue on this trend.
I totally know what you mean! I don’t really think it will change either (and am sure I’ll keep doing it myself)/ Mainly, I think I want to get back to being a bit less filtered on the blog and trying some new stuff – and stepping outside my comfort zone! Writing used to come much more easily to me.
I think it’s very easy to get into the rut of thinking that you can never share anything but recipes – and while that may be what people respond most to and why some people visit food blogs – my favorite blogs offer much more than that. Thanks for sharing your thoughts Erin!!
So. Much. Yes. <3
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This is exactly how I’ve been feeling these last several weeks. Between the pressure of producing and the desire to just take a step back and go back to those more spontaneous days, I have decided to allow myself to take it easy. Sometimes I go on those Facebook pages that are so helpful when it comes to learning more about optimizing various social media only feeling more frazzled – it has the opposite effect and I find myself avoiding things I love, like Instagram! It’s no wonder Snapchat is so fun right now! Anyway, I’m rambling, but I wanted to let you know – I AGREE. xo
I totally know what you mean! It can be hard, especially when you blog full-time, to drown out the voices. Sometimes that information is incredibly helpful, but often times it can leave you overwhelmed – and feeling conflicted. It’s something that I struggle with a lot – but I’m trying to be better at following my gut/instinct and trying not to over-think things so much!
My favorite blogs are those that I feel are more “real”, less curated. Where I feel I know the blogger and thus value what they post (recipe or otherwise) more. I just started following you and am now even more pleased I have. Looking forward to hearing more from you!
Thank you so much Jodi! I really, really appreciate it so much and am so glad to have you here. xo!
As I try to take my blog to the next level I keep thinking I need to show more of ME and talk more about my life, etc. as opposed to just beauty products. I wanna connect with my readers on that personal level, it’s just hard because I wonder whether or not people would be interested, but I think I should just give it a try!!
Great post, XO
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I definitely feel that being real is appealing the vast majority of all readers! There are always going to be people that just want to see ____, but I think its when you allow those thoughts to creep into your writing and content, it can stop you from doing great things!
As time goes on, it can be easy to censor yourself or do less spontaneous content – for various reasons, mostly because you feel like that’s what you SHOULD be doing. You know? I think ultimately you have to “do you’ and drown out the negative voices – and make sure that whatever you’re doing is true to who you are and what you love!!! I hope this helps! Thanks so much for sharing Elizabeth!
When I started my blog, I always wrote about personal things / my thoughts, but then as time went on, I found myself blogging more about the recipes and getting a little impersonal. It’s weird how time does that to you. But sometimes it’s easier to talk about those things rather than “real life” – recipe fails, kitchen fiascos – stuff that isn’t as “pretty”. But that’s authentic life and I think people really look for that kind of open dialogue! (P.S. Love the website redesign!! :D)
I totally know what you mean. Sometimes I just want to write about the recipe and other times, I don’t. For the most part, I don’t really censor myself in blog posts – but I’m guilty of NOT writing about life or other things for lots of different reasons – which is funny, because I LOVE reading those types of posts on other blogs! Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts Sarah!!! And I’m thrilled that you like the redesign! 🙂